Tuesday, March 10, 2009

One more opinion...

I'm just really having a difficult time letting go of wanting to be pregnant...so, I'm getting one more opinion. My Ob-gyn told me I could try to get pregnant again but that it would just be a very high-risk pregnancy, but the specialist told me no. So, I've found an ob-gyn that specializes in high-risk pregnancies and get his opinion. I promise all involved that if he says "no" then I will let it go.

I can't help but want to be pregnant again. I am very happy that a lot of the dbms are pregnant again, but I've noticed that they don't leave comments on my blog anymore. My feelings were hurt a little bit, but I've come to the conclusion that although they still miss and love their babies that these ladies have the hope again of a baby in their arms and are busy with other things now. I want to be where these ladies are...

So, I may end up crying again, but who knows....maybe, he'll give me some hope.

6 comments:

Emalee said...

I hope you will be able to get pregnant again. I hope you will have a baby in your arms to care for. I hope all wonderful and great things for you.

Never forgetting Gregory said...

I haven't posted on anyone's blog because I've been so busy and in a "missing gregory" funk. I am glad you are getting another opinion. I would absolutely not be able to give up the yearning to be pregnant again and it is 100% understandable. I hope you get great news. I am here for you no matter what this OB says.

Beth said...

I think you're making a really wise choice. It's good to get one more opinion, but it's also good to realize that at some point (and I hope this doesn't happen!) you may have to accept what your specialist has told you.

I do always read your posts, but sometimes I'm in a hurry and don't get a chance to leave comments. I definitely always follow it though! You and all of the other dbms are in my thoughts daily.

Jessica said...

Jen,I am so happy to hear that you are getting another opinion. I don't blame you, I would want to exhaust all options. I can't wait to hear what you find out. And good or bad, I am here to listen. On another note, I am so incredibly sorry if I have hurt your feelings in any way. I read every one of your posts... sometimes words just get away from me. You are ALWAYS in my thoughts. Hugs!

Hollie said...

I think getting a 2nd opinion is a great idea!! I will hope and pray that you get the answers you want!!

I do still read all of your posts, and will look forward to reading about what you find out!

Keeping my fingers double crossed for you hun!

Brendan and Brenna's Mom said...

I think that when women from our "group" get pregnant they are hesitant to reach out to us because they are afraid their being pregnant hurts us who aren't. I just think they are trying to not hurt our feelings.