Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Face.book event..

I created a face.book event page for Lily's birthday but only invited my blm and closest family and friends. Mainly, I left out friends that although they're kind, they just wouldn't get "it".

This is probably evil but I check the people who've clicked "I'm attending" and I add them to my true friends list. And, I'm seriously debating dropping the friends that either click "not attending" or are ignoring it all together.

It's a VIRTUAL event just saying that you'll think of Lily, light a candle or release a balloon in her honor. You can think of her from your couch! No one has clicked "not attending" as of yet but there are several names on the pending list and it's actually kinda hurting my feelings now. I guess these feelings come from the fact that I go out of my way to remember a lot of babies of my fb blm friends and I will be kind of irritated if they ignore her birthday.

I don't know maybe my emotions are just getting high because her birthday is only a few weeks away.

5 comments:

AKD said...

I think of you both daily, I will always attend!

Joshua said...

I'll think of you all, too.

Natasha said...

I've never understood why people decline virtual events to remember little babies. Ugghh! I was just talking to another BLM about this yesterday. People are so crazy.

Definitely thinking of you and your Lily........xoxo

Becky said...

I think about all of my blm friends and there little ones daily and will for sure be thinking of you and Lily on her birthday.

Trennia said...

Dear Jen,
Please don't think for one moment I forgot about Lily.I have not been on facebook, but soon as I leave your blog I am going to check attend...I love you my friend and your Lily...and Cooper :)
I am dealing with somethings I hope I can share on my blog soon, so I hope you don't think I've ignored you....I think of you,Lily and Cooper alot.(((HUGS)))