tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2250875081542288351.post5157735293610778669..comments2023-08-27T09:24:10.021-04:00Comments on Lily's mommy forever: A wonderful daddy~Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2250875081542288351.post-24216770280116933202010-01-21T01:40:03.047-05:002010-01-21T01:40:03.047-05:00I remember reading about these people before. I&#...I remember reading about these people before. I'm sorry you had to deal with more of their ignorance, but I'm so glad your hubby stood up to them. I hope it really did open their eyes and that they actually thought about how NOT supportive they have been.Never forgetting Gregoryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12791819761431846156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2250875081542288351.post-52080958360746148002010-01-19T20:58:29.740-05:002010-01-19T20:58:29.740-05:00oh Jen, i am so sorry. it's just awful and i ...oh Jen, i am so sorry. it's just awful and i know how much that hurts. none of my family really acknowledges Leila and it makes it so much harder to cope. why is it that it's the ones closest to us that seem so far away when we are grieving? it doesn't make any sense at all.... <br /><br />sending love, <br />christyLeila's mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13220692586558542268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2250875081542288351.post-24140053294533856332010-01-19T18:20:59.679-05:002010-01-19T18:20:59.679-05:00Awe, I am sure that was a horrible day for you! I ...Awe, I am sure that was a horrible day for you! I hope at least that your husband and you get to feel better about telling them and letting them know how you feel. <br /><br />Hugs.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03960284624015467516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2250875081542288351.post-8905968246917342872010-01-19T12:23:22.977-05:002010-01-19T12:23:22.977-05:00How awful! I am so sorry!
My hubby's parents...How awful! I am so sorry!<br /><br />My hubby's parents refer to my Lilly as "your last miscarriage..." and that stings. Thankfully my parents don't. The sad thing is that my parents get it. I was a twin. My twin sister died two days after we were born. My parents let me know I was a twin, and whenever I asked questions, they always answered them. But it wasn't until I lost my Lilly that my mom completely opened up with me. It is a bittersweet bond we have. Lilly is actually named after my twin sister. <br /><br />I hope your in-laws have a nice flight, and that they don't visit for a while!<br /><br />Lily and Cooper are lucky to have such a great daddy!Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02940842982543866147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2250875081542288351.post-12561057208345927452010-01-18T20:24:44.131-05:002010-01-18T20:24:44.131-05:00Woe....I'm so sorry Jen, how can people be so ...Woe....I'm so sorry Jen, how can people be so mean?!<br />Lily is just as important and beautiful as any baby that is alive!<br />Sorry Jen...that this happened to you.trenniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208738689962789823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2250875081542288351.post-80773773061993412872010-01-18T15:49:40.887-05:002010-01-18T15:49:40.887-05:00Jen, I'm so sorry to hear about that! I wish I...Jen, I'm so sorry to hear about that! I wish I could fix it all. Thinking of you and your husband. (((HUGS)))Maggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13339073098081631983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2250875081542288351.post-20022946146244584712010-01-18T14:57:11.942-05:002010-01-18T14:57:11.942-05:00I am so sorry Jen. I cannot imagine how hard that...I am so sorry Jen. I cannot imagine how hard that must be for you and your husband. Sending you lots of HUGS!Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15349971620040597427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2250875081542288351.post-19203000768846410932010-01-18T14:01:07.051-05:002010-01-18T14:01:07.051-05:00Jen, I am hurt for you and your husband. In playin...Jen, I am hurt for you and your husband. In playing devils advocate here (hehe),they do know your pain because they have been through it as well. Back in the day these things were not spoken about and as you said, "pushed under the rug". That is the only way they know how to deal with it, and quite unfairly expect u and Chuck to react the same way. Acknowledging the fact that Lily is your first born and still close to your heart, probably brings up the painful memory of their loss as well. By ignoring Lily, they are ignoring the pain that they have already buried. <br /><br />I have always said we have to keep our babies memories alive, even if others want to push that memory aside. Keep talking about her! In time (hopefully) they will see how important her memory is and love and acknowledge her as much as we all do.<br /><br />I am glad that hubby was able to speak to them and let them know how important lily is to the both of you. <br />Thinking about you, hubby, Lily, and Cooper. {hugs}.Marie Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18203552551406512142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2250875081542288351.post-50785320358145639452010-01-18T13:27:27.239-05:002010-01-18T13:27:27.239-05:00oh Jen *huge hugs* I don't know your husband a...oh Jen *huge hugs* I don't know your husband and I want to give him a huge hug. I can imagine that pain. that would hurt tremendously. I hope the rest of the visit goes ok. <br /><br />I am really surprised how they are acting with Lily considering they lost their own child full term.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com